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How relationships give birth to depression now-a-days?

Reason : Relationship, love, care, jealousy, understanding, trust, maturity these are some of the emotions and feelings that affect everyone's life at different stages.

Some important points that describe why depression arise so much:

1. Brain and our body is not developed before the age of 18, but still, we start making relationship and our brain is not ready to face the cheating lies and we start getting depressed.
2. Under the age of 18 we are not mature enough to take the right decision but due to addiction we start making relationship and we give our lust feeling the name of love.
3. If you are not following the age rules then you will never able to enjoy the things, because step by step our brain gets ready to deal with unwanted decisions.
4. Example : We are a new-born Pot(in which we store water), it take 18 years for this pot to be stronger, and if we put the water in this before this age then surely this pot will not be able to survive... Same thing happens with us, at the age of 10-12 if we start making relationship. Dear kids, you don't even understand what is love or lust and you start believing that a kid of your age can take care of your beautiful heart, more than your parents... From here your depression start arising day by day in small quantity.
5. Making distance from family and friends make you more alone from inside, because for you, your gf/bf is everything and when they leave you, you are not able to understand how to deal with that situation because your mind is not developed yet to face these situations.
6.  At the age of watching cartoons or playing outdoor games, you are busy in useless chat thus obviously you are not giving your mind a good and healthy learning from good sources.
7. Loneliness is inside you and you think that love creates these things but in reality if you fall in love with complete understanding and at proper age you will deal with everything in proper and useful manner.
8. Trusting a person is not bad, but how can you trust someone more than your family?? This will only create distance from your loved once and then you go on a path which has no end and no permanent happiness.